We all have something to offer. Everyone knows something you don’t know. You have something to learn and receive from every single person you meet. Don’t miss that.
Pretend that the words you say about someone directly influence their actions. If you speak negatively about someone, especially behind their back, you will be looking for actions of theirs that validate your viewpoint – which is one of them being a negative (in whatever way) person. So don’t do that! Speak positively about someone. Look for actions of theirs that validate your viewpoint that they are someone with something to offer. Speak positive things into existence. Look for the good! Look for the God.